My twin sister Carolyn, known to me as lynnie, died last night, suddenly and unexpectedly …
Poor lynnie… May she Rest In Peace.
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Hi Sophia I missed this comment but I see you wrote only a few days ago, so I’m not too late. Things are going surprisingly well, and I am off to France at the end of September. Life as I now know really is short, and needs to be enjoyed! Hope you are well. If you are up to visiting Vermont you would be welcome here. My car is out of service for the time being, hopefully I’ll be back on the road again eventually.
Best wishes,
Phoebe
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Good morning Phoebe
Time is passing so fast I should’ve written sooner I often think of you and hope you’re doing well We came back to Connecticut in June so not too far away from where you are Please write back
Love Sophia
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Hi Sophia, I hope you are well. I am writing letters to Lynnie in French, long long letters. This whole thing feels like such a big joke..but I am okay. Dunno what to believe.
Love,
Phoebe
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Dear Pheobe
I was happy to hear back from you
I hope you’re doing well
I find you amazing as an artist and a person
Reading yours and Carolyn’s book You’ve had gotten though such hard times
I think of you often
Sophia
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Dear Sophia, i am sorry you discovered my blog in this fashion…but I welcome you to it. I have not posted much here or at https;// arteveryday365.com recently, for understandable reasons, but I will Be back soon. Thank you for contacting me. Love,
Phoebe
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Dear Phoebe
I knew Carolyn and I knew of you
I learned a lot more about you lives now that she’s gone and I can’t let go of her
I don’t quite know where I am going with this comment I am normally to shy to invade one’s space uninvited but I want to tell you that my love and admiration of her has extended to you and I will follow your blog if it is okay
Please accept my deepest condolences
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Thank you, O for these words of compassionate wisdom
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Thank you for remembering me, susan. So sweet that you still likenthe watermelon box! Thanks for contacting me, I deeply appreciate it.
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Hi phoebe I am so sorry to hear about your sister. Not sure you remember me I was a companion for your mom for a couple of years I brought her up to see you in weathersfield. You made me a little pill box painted on it was watermelon. I still carry it around ! I always loved your art and your talent
Please be well and give my best to your family during this difficult time.
Susan Nisson
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” Joy shared is joy multiplied. Grief shared is grief diminished.” That is an indigenous saying that has been attributed to an African tribe and to a South American one. I believe it reflects Humanity at its best. I am holding Witness. I am sending love and light, as I read the outpouring of support for you in this time of grief, Phoebe. Keep breathing. Find your Center. Stay in your courageous and open heart.
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Dear Phoebe,
So sorry to hear of your deep loss. Sending you love
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Thank you for your comments, Ellen. I am very grateful for everything you wrote..and also so happy you liked the wedding jewelry…Lynnie seemed to wear it a lot even afterwards, which pleased me immensely .
Phoebe
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PHOEBE,
I AM AN ADMIRER OF YOUR BLOG/YOUR ART/POETRY AND ADVOCACY – BUT, FIRST TIME I WROTE IN.LAST NIGHT, I AM SINCERELY SORRY FOR NAME CONFUSION – NO DISRESPECT INTENDED. I AM SO GLAD YOU FEEL THE LOVE AND SUPPORT OF ALL BECAUSE IT IS REAL LOVE FOR YOU AND LYNNIE AND THE FAMILY. THE TEARS DON’T STOP – JUST A TESTAMENT FOR HOW MUCH SHE IS LOVED. SHE IS SO PROUD OF YOU, WHAT A WONDERFUL SISTAH YOU ARE. !
PS. TOLD CAROLYN HOW MUCH I LOVED THE JEWLERY YOU MADE FOR HER WEDDING – ASTONISHING TALENT. HOPING WE CAN BE EMAIL FRIENDS IN THE FUTURE – TIL THEN ALL PEACE AND LOVE, EL
( ELLEN MILLER-POND )
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I can only reiterate what others have already written.. I am so sorry! Call me anytime if you wanna talk. Although I haven’t (literally) lost a sibling, I am NO stranger to grief!
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Oh Linda , lady Quixote, I can’t thank you enough for your kindness and compassion…but don’t make yourself sick! We need you in this world! Thank you from the bottom of my heart…love you too,
Phoebe
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I am crying again. I never went to bed all night, just sat on the sofa, because I felt so sad for you. Phoebe, you are an incredible, amazing woman. You inspire me so much! All that you have been through, and yet you still keep going, you create amazing art and poetry. Oh… I hope you don’t mind a virtual ((HUG))
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Thank you so much Linda and everyone…it is such a shock still. I will update this as i can but for now I feel everyone here with me. Thank you…
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Phoebe, I’m sorry, I didn’t mean to call you Pam in my earlier comment. I read this and I commented three hours ago, and I can’t stop thinking about this. I want to cry. I did not know your sister, my sorrow and tears are for you. Oh I am so sorry. Tears.. I am crying for you.
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So so sorry Pheobe. She was such a good sister to you. Take care of yourself.
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Dearest Phoebe,
I send you virtual hugs – healing hugs all the way…
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Oh no. I am so sorry. Oh Pam, I wish I lived near you. I am stunned.
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I’m shocked..I new your sister and you both…many prays Pam
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I’m so sorry to hear of your loss. Wishing you peaceful memories of your sister to hold close at heart. 💜
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Pam and family,
i am devastated to hear of our beloved Carolyn. She is the best. My heart is broken for all of you, and selfishly me. I considered her family and my bf. I have known her for 31 years as both a patient and colleague – she is my mentor. All love to you and the family, Ellen Miller-Pond
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I’m so very sorry to hear this. You must be in shock as it’s so totally unexpected. Keep your friends close and allow them to help you navigate through the turbulence.
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So sorry to hear this. Blessings.
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OMG, Phoebe, so sorry
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Dear Friend,
What a shock! Take good care of yourself.
Love,
Joan
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I just opened my mail to see this and am shocked and heartbroken for you. I am so sorry Phoebe. May your sister rest in peace. Thinking of you as you take this journey through loss.
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Pam, I am thinking of you, Chip, Martha and the kids on this very sad and unexpected day. I am at a loss of words. Sending you our love.
BJ
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OH HONEY! Big, big hugs to you. It’s so so hard to loose a sibling. I loved the book you wrote together so much.
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